Dear Mithila Mam, No you certainly are not a hard hearted person. Tears don't come doesn't mean you are not having any emotions. From what I know and heard about you, you are a warm hearted person. I am the opposite Mithila...I cry easily....at the drop of a hat. Any small things like seeing an emotional scene in a movie will make me cry....and it is just not damp eyes...I mean actually flowing tears down the cheek type. I am a very sensitive person I guess.