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I cannot change the world but I can change myself

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jul 8, 2009.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Never explain yourself to anyone because the person who likes you does not need it and the person who dislikes you does not believe it.

    Many a times if a friend suddenly stops talking to us or if we had any arguements regarding something we try to explain ourselves to them, but if the friend is close to us and knows us well will forgive us and listen to what we say but if the friend is not so close and does not know us well will not believe what we say and it ends up in misundersanding each other.

    Some people dont bother about these things and they dont care whether that friend talks to them or not.

    But some need everyone and like to be friendly with everyone and dont like to hurt anyone.

    If we dont expect anything from others we will never be disappointed.

    Learn to understand first and to be understood second. We should be like salt, if it is there we dont feel the presence and if it is not there it will be tasteless

    viji
     
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    Deepali_deepali Gold IL'ite

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    DEar Viji Ji,

    I admire your last line."We should be like salt, if it is there we dont feel the presence and if it is not there it will be tasteless". So true !!! But willingly or unwillingly we do this many times.. Small misunderstandings make big issues making distances between friends..
     
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    sigmabeta Bronze IL'ite

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    Viji Maa, a well thought out piece. I loved this sentence
     
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    Viji aunty,

    Take a chance with your friends. try to understand before demanding to be understood.

    the moment you do not expect from any relationships, you almost reach the correct equation for success in the relationship..
     
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    Hi Ma'am,

    I feel what you have written is absolutely true!!! I like it...
     
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    swathi14 IL Hall of Fame

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    Wonder words Viji.

    Its a beautiful post that explains how we should behave with others.

    I really like it.

    andal
     
  7. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Deepali

    Glad to receive your fb and that you liked the post.

    love
    viji
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Syama

    Thanks for visiting here and glad to know that you liked the post.

    lvoe
    vij
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Shanthi

    Glad to receive your fb and agree with your views on the subject. Rightly said.

    love
    viji


     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Swathi

    Nice to see you here with your fb and glad to know that you liked the psot.

    love
    viji
     

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