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Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by Devikaa, Sep 30, 2016.

  1. Devikaa

    Devikaa Senior IL'ite

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    Hello ladies,

    I am living with my sister in law and jiju, from 1 week they went at her moms home for looking her helth. they have son 18. Yesterday when I came from work I saw my nephew is doing very wrong, he was masturbating. And when I enter he was just cuming and semen spread all over the floor.

    I feel very very rubbish of his behavior. His parents not at home, should I tell them about him, or I talk to him not to do?

    Pleas answer me..
     
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    beautifullife30 Platinum IL'ite

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    Hey Devika,

    If you happened to witness this act just because you were "at a wrong place at a wrong time", then i would say please ignore.

    I have heard that boys that age are usually into exploring stuff! And i guess since the house was empty, he didn't bother about the privacy part.

    However, if it was intentional like he knew you would be there and did the act, please do have a talk with him directly!

    Also, i am not sure if this is really the right forum for this topic. Maybe moderators can help move this?!
     
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  3. Devikaa

    Devikaa Senior IL'ite

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    hey beautifullife30,

    Thanks for your reply, i'll talk to him. Also I think this is not right place for this.
    I'll revert you for the same.
     
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    dimhere Gold IL'ite

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    Troll...
     
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  5. Devikaa

    Devikaa Senior IL'ite

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    Is it? :hmmm:
     
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    rajkumarxxx Bronze IL'ite

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    Go through the profile page of OP and all the contents / threads , she has uploaded. Six threads on six different spheres of life, so far posted by her.

    The moment, OP starts a thread on this subject, she is termed a troll. (That too,,it is on 'intimacy' section only).

    A very typical regressive mindset !!
     
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    sbonigala Platinum IL'ite

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    what is there to be "scared" - you are an adult, you should be knowing that its all normal at this age.
    Relax
     
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    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    You just caught him at the wrong time and place.He is probably more embarrassed than you are.
     
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    Devikaa Senior IL'ite

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    Yes, I am normal but....
    haven't face this type of situation before that's why I am "scared" sbonigala
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    He is 18, and it is quite normal for any boy at this age, I guess. Some even start this way early as 16 and some wait till they cross their 20s. But it is normal, and it is happening everywhere. There is nothing wrong, or nothing to catch him red handed.

    Just that he wasn't doing it in private. Blame his age and lack of maturity. It happens.

    It is bad that you had to witness it. It is even bad for him, because he must be really really embarrassed for this.

    As a matured adult, if I were you I would ignore this and take it easy.

    Revealing this to his parents, and embarrassing both (parents and child) for something very natural as this is very childish.
    Talking to him about this matter is even worst.
    It is very much interfering someone's privacy.
     
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