My husband and I have been married for close to a year(no kids yet). He is a sweet and caring guy, not the typical macho types.Yesterday he said that I want to reveal something to you...my sexual orientation is I am SUBMISSIVE to WOMEN. I want you to boss over me and wear the pants in the relationship.He said in his school days, he used to feel very happy and fulfilled when a female teacher used to beat him with a ruler for any mistake. Now he wants me to buy a ruler and a cane and discipline him whenever he commits a mistake. On further digging, I found that he often visits erotic female domination and feminist sites on the internet. I didn't know how to react, said to him give me some time to think it over. To be honest, I find this behavior extremely bizarre. I have been raised in a traditional Indian household where the father is the dominant figure.Ours is an arranged marriage, and none of this was revealed until this point. I am under a lot of stress right now and feel cheated, not sure how to react. Has anyone else seen/heard anything like this? I'll be most grateful for any suggestions/advices on how to deal with this situation.