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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by rams.dwa, Jun 30, 2010.

  1. amihere

    amihere Platinum IL'ite

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    Ofcourse dear, what you have did is best for you. Why do you have to suffer living with a person who doubts you?(Isnt it why he calls you every now and then and deny you to talk to anyone who is of other sex). I wish you all the best and courage to lead your life succesfully with lot and lot of colours.
     
  2. RadiantCat

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    In this every growing messy world, the most affordable matter is divorce. :rotfl:rotfl. Don't worry he's not worth you.
     
  3. ArunaSashi

    ArunaSashi Bronze IL'ite

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    Get out of this mess! He can't be changed.. No way!

    Good that you are bold enough..
     
  4. ALPA

    ALPA Platinum IL'ite

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    HI dear,
    let me tell you something a monkey will never stop leaping so a man can never change. you are working in a good MNC and earning a salary so leave him move on in life you will meet other great guys but before you go in to any relationship please do through his entire background and always have someone of your own status. you are rich and was married to a a person who was not so think what you went through.
    Everything happens for a reason in our lives.
    love
    alpa:cheers
     
  5. Nitha J

    Nitha J IL Hall of Fame

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    Meera;
    A very right decision. There is no need for you to revisit this step.
    If he didn't change his character with all the love you gave and the sacrifices you made; there is no probable chance that he will change after giving a second chance.
    Be courageous and live your life the way you want.
    You are a shirdi baba devotee. Continue praying him. He will give you all the courage and heal the pain you feel.
    All the best
    -Nitha
     
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    Coffeelover Platinum IL'ite

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    You made right decision. Stick to it. Life is short and enjoy it when you can.

    Glad to hear that your parents are supporting you. Pray to Baba ad things wil get better.

    Proud of you!!!! :bowdown
     
  7. Priya16

    Priya16 IL Hall of Fame

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    You should be happy that your husband had this affair and god show you to way come out the hell.If he didn't have affair then you try to adjust with that sick person and YOU MADE VERY GOOD DECISION AND YOU DESERE IT.All the best.
     
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    kAlyaniShAnti IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Meera,

    You have taken a timely and perfect decision given the situation! For such a person, there is no scope of second thought. Don't even get carried away by the advice of his parents of not to ruin ur life by divorcing him.

    For ur case, divorce is the only way to save ur life, not living with this mean cheat.

    Best wishes
     
    Last edited: Jun 30, 2010
  9. 1janavi

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    Meera,You made the right decision.Don't ever give a seconds thought about working on your relationship.There is absolutely no future with this man. I agree with priya16 .
    So be happy that the torture is over and start a new life all over.
    Good luck!
     
  10. ArchanaP

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    You have taken correct decision. Continue with your work. Try to keep your mind away from his thoughts as much as possible.
    Good for you that you have realized the reality about your husband. So now that you have realized move forward in your thoughts and actions. Never look back. You will definitely meet someone worth your love and will forget all this in no time.
    May God give you all the strength you need.
     

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