Hi All, Am meera from chennai.I have been married only for 10 months.But i learnt lots of lesson within this month. We were in love for past 5 years and married after that.During our love period he was controlling me a lot .For example if i speak with any guys in office,he will shout at me and fight will be for more than a week. so even i avoided girl friends too.I didnt shared my mobile no to any one other than him and my parents. i thought he was possesive with me :bonk i struggled in my house to marry him and got married last year.His side he is not rich and i am rich hence bought every thing for house and lived with his parents ans sisters.He will not give is mobile phone to me from starting.Always he will say there is nothing in it and tell me first learn to be a good wife learn all things like cooking,cleaning etc.In my house i was like a queen not even done small things.For him learnt all things .But after marriage he was not making me happy.He will always keep distance with me and frankly to say we didnt even went honeymoon or even to shopping with him alone.Always i will go with his parents if i need to buy anything. Also my salary i will give full amount to his parentsThey will give 500 RS from that to me.See how much love on him that i didnt evn asked anything abt that. I was noticing that always he will be on phone.lways typing sms to some one even at 11:30 night.to say in this ten months we had only upto max of 10 times of sex.That too i will fight with him to have that(though i feel ashame but i like to have a child )Sometime he will shout at me why u are wanderin for sex if u need go to some one.lots of night i cried due to his Words. He will be having security code for his mobile so that no one can open his mobile.10 days before i was just cleaning our room saw a key chain which was having i love u mess from one girl. I was stun devotee of shridi sai.I evn stopped praying him as my hubby doesnt like him. But past one month i was crying all days and started praying sai again. After seeing this key chain,next day after he went to office something said to see his mobile which he normally switch off while going to office and keep in shelf.I switched on that i just enterd his birthday date as pssword.It opened ! its only due to gods grace... I was shocked to see mess inside to a girl. my heart was broken into pieces seein there romantic mess,audio mess .He not even called me like those lovable words till ths time... i calles and shouted at him.Took all my originals and informed to his parents abt him(because he may reverse the scene that i have relationship with some one) Came to my mothers place ,meanwhile called that girl who he was mess .She told they are in love for 2.5 years! she is married and having 5 years kid and having this nasty relationship. So i informed my parents i cant live any more with him Applied for divorce.as 1year not completd need to wait for 2 months to take any action. His parents say u come and change him.DOnt waste ur life. So friends, please help me what i took is rite or wrong.. If i live with him i will become mentally depressed . (after getting red handed he has told his parents that i too was wrong speaking with guys which he has no evdince ..)I know he will reverse the scene) So pls suggest.. am crying every moment..