Husband With Anger Issues

Sandycandy · Sep 8, 2017

I am sorry for your situation, is there anyway you can change it ? There is no point being in a unhappy marriage, specially when abuse is involved. I wish you the best and hope that you are able to initiate a positive change. Take care.

bruised234 said: ↑

I am not blaming her. I am in the same boat and I know what it feels like. Everyday I tell myself to get better and yes I pray - that's what has helped me. A man who beats - nothing can rectify him, a taste of his own medicine will. Wishing that is not good because it affects the victim too. As long as the bully has no respect for the victim, it will continue. Even in my case it is his parents who are responsible. Both MIL/FIL have attitudes, MIL has no respect for anyone and same with FIL. The only person FIL ever respects is H and MIL. If ever OP says a thing about her MIL to husband, she will get it even worse. Perhaps OP can pray and hope for the best, but it won't happen overnight, it is going to be a long journey with a consequence unknown. MIL or no MIL, the beating problem is going to be around, because it is a habit and habits can't be rid of easily. It will be even more worrisome if it stops, because that means the guy has found some other outlet. Be careful OP. Stop hating yourself, be vigilant and thick skinned. It is like living with a kid - even kids understand, here that is not the case. You can try to instill fear and respect - for that you have to be the bigger bully.
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