Husband Wants To Manage Money

One more to add - be independent and take initiative, manage any money that you have on your own, even before someone makes a suggestion. For this obviously, you have to be good with money. Women should get a course on how to manage money before marriage seriously. Take charge of things always, be responsible for yourself, no one else will do that - even loved ones, without some cost. And do such a good job at it that they can't accuse of you being selfish and secretive. There is no selfishness in being responsible for oneself because if one doesn't do that they will be ultimately accused of being clingy and needy. Even if the other person provokes you, don't let it bother you.