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Husband wants a boy baby after 2girls

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Radhika333, Feb 7, 2015.

  1. Radhika333

    Radhika333 New IL'ite

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    Hi friends,
    I am married since 9 years my older daughter is 7 and younger one is 16 months.
    My husband and me keep having fight every day he wants a boy baby now and I am not interested in having any more baby, I don't have any help from my in-laws nor my husband during both the pregnancy and delivery.
    But,is it really that important in life to have a boy!
    My husband acts as if ,no boy his life is in vain.
     
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  2. pinkRoseBud

    pinkRoseBud Gold IL'ite

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    You have 2 lives depending on you. You need to be strong at least for them. You need to teach them you dont compromise on things which you aren't ok with. You need to be strong to teach them. Why should there be fight? Don't discuss much. If you can't convince him, Last option, you know how to not get pregnant, so don't worry and don't fight.

    He does not know your value, teach him that first. Otherwise he won't respect his daughters too.
     
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    Twinkel Platinum IL'ite

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    Tell your husband "if you were so desperate to have a boy, you should have made and given only Y chromosome sperm. Why the hell did you give X chromosome? All your fault buddy, not in my hands, can't really help it shakehead no more giving you chances you looser! " That should fix him :rant
     
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    dreamyviji Senior IL'ite

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    Radhika333,
    I dont see anything wrong in your husband wanting a boy. I dont interpret it as "he doesnt like girls". Its just a wish, some men fantasize having a son, thats all.
    But I understand your perspective of not wanting to have another baby - its a lot of work without help. This is something you have to talk about with him and convince him explaining the difficulties of managing 3 kids all by yourself.
    -Dreamy
     
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    Tryinghard2013 Silver IL'ite

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    Ask your husband how he is so sure the third child will be a boy?
     
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    DreamWorld Silver IL'ite

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    Tell your husband to Grow Up!
    Its no fault of yours OP. What if God blesses you with another beautiful baby girl? :clap
    Ask you husband about this? Then will he say lets try for the 4th or 5th and so on?

    Enjoy your present life with two precious daugthers:thumbsup
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    what is the guarantee that the next one would be boy? how many children is he willing to have to get the gender of his choice? ask him.
     
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    Laks09 Staff Member Finest Post Winner

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    My Grandma's sister had 6 kids hoping for a boy. All six are daughters.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    too much cross posting lol
     
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    Marzipan Silver IL'ite

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    Haha. My late grandfather's late brother had 8 kids hoping for a boy and all 8 turned out to be Girls.
     
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