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Husband struggling with his career

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by daffoteji, Dec 31, 2013.

  1. Frontier

    Frontier Silver IL'ite

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    ask for his resume just to be sure.
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    That is an excellent suggestion Coolwinds.:exactly:
     
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  2. Ansuya

    Ansuya Platinum IL'ite

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    Agreed, but I'm assuming that men who take on this not-so-traditional role are going to be held to a higher standard - kind of like they are here on IL ;)
     
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  3. JustAnotherMom

    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    This was my fall back plan but you made me realize I don't qualify for this role. ( proof,2 load of laundry one sink full of dirty dishes and yet to cook.)
     
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  4. coolwinds

    coolwinds Platinum IL'ite

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    if she just stays at home, there is no criteria at all. but like my friend says, a lot of people hold jobs and get paid for substandard work and get to surf the internet on company time. :)
     
  5. justanothergirl

    justanothergirl IL Hall of Fame

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    ur point CW?

    In case u do not realise u are actually seconding my opinion.
    Stellar performance at a job if made mandatory will result in a lot of us being unemployed be it at home or elsewhere.
     
  6. Ansuya

    Ansuya Platinum IL'ite

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    If it makes you feel better, JAM, we are having toast for supper.
     
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  7. JustAnotherMom

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    Look like you also have to find another fall back plan. :). Let's team up n look for any new leads ;)
     
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  8. Ansuya

    Ansuya Platinum IL'ite

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    If only someone would pay us, say 25c per word, for dishing out mostly unsolicited advice on the internet...
     
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  9. JustAnotherMom

    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    Lol. "US" !!!! Who gonna pay me a penny :(. Just today morning I was having the thought of spending too much time in IL which gives no value add to my life but poking nose to any one and everyone's life which kinda drains my energy.
    I should be sticking to-weight loss section.

    OP. Apology on ranting in your thread :(
     
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  10. peet1983

    peet1983 Silver IL'ite

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    I believe she exhausted with this relation. There is no even glims of love on her words towards this relation.
    What I suggest you take a break, just move to your house for couple of months and let him give a chance to live alone and work. This temp separation will refill love you had years back, and I believe that will be make him refresh and start again.
     
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