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Husband says i consume!!!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Memories, Jan 31, 2013.

  1. Memories

    Memories Senior IL'ite

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    My DH told me that i consume...Am a stay-at-home-mom.....just don't know...i felt it insulting.......If one does'nt bring a pay check, does that make one a consumer...i feel horrible about myself .
     
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  2. vidhya3b

    vidhya3b IL Hall of Fame

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    What do you consume?? Food?? His money?? Whatever it is, tell him it his duty to feed you and bear your expenses which are essential... ( I am not talking about lavish spending :p )

    Don be harsh.. Tell him in a funny way!!!

    If he still din understand, then tell him that you are feeling bad when he tells something like that... Hope he will understand...

    May be he would have just told in a funny way!!!
     
  3. kishoremommy

    kishoremommy Platinum IL'ite

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    This is from your post.You have written clearly what I was going to write.Now,where comes the confusion?
    I read this while browsing.

    Dear Memories,

    I am an engineering graduate,but preferred to stay as a home maker.I am really happy with it.

    May be your DH told that in between some argument.Don't take it seriously.
     
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  4. Anitap

    Anitap IL Hall of Fame

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    Go on a bandh.... He might get to know your contribution to the family... :)
     
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  5. vidhya3b

    vidhya3b IL Hall of Fame

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    OP You should definitely follow this!!!!!!

    Wife:coffee

    Hubby :hide:

    lol
     
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  6. Khanaksmom

    Khanaksmom Silver IL'ite

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    HI
    Did he say this normally or in a fit of anger? Too bad, he shouldn't have said this.

    I agree, go on a bandh!
    Did your MIL work? Tell him even she was a consumer, your children everyone is a consumer.

    Neha
     
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    kishoremommy Platinum IL'ite

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    Your DH is also a consumer.He consumes good,healthy food and there is always a person waiting for him when he comes home.

    Isn't that a blessing?
     
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  8. seethavarma

    seethavarma Gold IL'ite

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    Tell him you need a salary for cooking food and doing household chores!
    And additional bucks for any extra work!
    Is he telling this all the time?
    Is it because u r overweight and he is reprimanding?
     
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    sushmavja Platinum IL'ite

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    plan on a weekend and dont do any household chores and cooking.let him understand how the home is neat by the time he returns even when the kids scatter everything here and there..how the kitchen sink is empty, how the laundry bag is clean..also order food from outside for two days..
     
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  10. steve

    steve Platinum IL'ite

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    Wow! That's your ticket to not feed him! What are you waiting for? ;)
     
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