Its close to a year since delivery, and I can see that my husband is losing interest in me..its been many years since marriage..maybe due to childcare and house chores and due to his office work we are too busy..but even on weekends he doesn't give me any special attention at all... I haven't lost all the pregnancy weight but making efforts and I try to do some self grooming stuff at home itself..i dress neatly and keep myself presentable no matter how busy I maybe.. He is very much attached to his parents, and his relatives..he goes out of the way to make them happy.. He will invite guests home to socialise, he will even go to relatives house and social occasions without fail..he will take his parents for medical checkups..but if I need him to do anything for me or take me out on a weekend, he always has excuses..even if parents or laws are ready to babysit for few hours he himself isn't inclined to take me out..or he will take me just for half n hour and then bring me back quickly..He makes me feel like I'm forcibly dragging him away and giving him some punishment.. He wants me to attend all occasions of his relatives.. If I'm unable to make it for a single occasion due to being busy with my baby, or if I'm not feeling well, he will sulk around, he will be moody and refuse to talk to me for several days.. But his parents and relatives and friends will always be welcome..running errands for them, entertaining them, attending their social occasions, talking to them on phone, wishing them for festivals etc.. I cannot blame either in laws or relatives . ..they dint tell him to neglect wife.. I feel I'm being taken for granted.. If I ask him why he isn't interested, he denies it.. We hardly have any intimacy and he isn't interested and now even I've lost interest.. My friends who are my age, married and with a kid or kids put so many pics of themselves enjoying with their husband..they have put on excess weight and looking older after delivery but their husbands still love them and adore them..I feel so upset..I feel like we are leading separate lives. I'm feeling really jealous of his parents and relatives who get so much attention from him..In fact I've started having extreme loathing and hatred for his relatives because of the attention they get from him.. Even on my birthday and wedding anniversary he made some excuse to not spend time with me or take me out.. I'm not a newly married woman and I don't expect romance like newly married couples.. But am I not entitled to a little bit of love and care? I'm quite sure he isn't cheating on me.. How can I make sure my husband doesn't take me for granted? How can I make sure my husband gives priority to me and not to some third persons?