Hi all, I've been married almost 5 yrs now -- no kids. It was an arranged marriage. I work full-time and so does my husband. On weekdays we are both very tired and hardly get any time with each other. Come Friday night, my SIL & BIL who live a couple of blocks from us, start making demands on our time. They want to spend every waking moment with us. This is straining our relationship. My husband does not even have time to sleep with me and is always busy entertaining his family. He wines them & dines them in fancy restaurants, goes on trips with them and pays for them all the time. He loves them very much and I feel he would be able to leave me but cannot stay away from them. I try to keep a positive attitude, but am often depressed and feel like I have to constantly struggle to spend time with him. I don't get any affection from his family and simply must be nice to them. He has never supported me in the past even when they have been nasty to me. I do not know how we can start living as a normal couple. I feel like I am the third wheel in my marriage. He has now agreed to try to have a baby, but I'm scared that he'll still keep his old ways and I'll be essentially raising the baby alone. I'm not sure how I could improve my situation. Please advise.