Have been married for a few months now. My husband has not given me a single gift right from our engagement days till now. During this period , New year, Valentines day, my birthday has come and gone. But he didnt gift me on any of these occasions. He doesnt buy anything for me. Once we had gone shopping (few days after my birthday), i wanted to buy a top, i said - you buy this top for me, i will consider it my birthday gift. he clearly said - you are earning, u buy it yourself i will not buy. Whats this logic?? He earns more than double me, but still doesnt spend on me. Even for basic shopping things like medical or anything, if I want to buy something, i pay for it myself. Some times i feel he is a miser but then he brough 2 gifts for my brothers birthday. But when it comes to spending on me (even basic things) , he gets annoyed. He is too money minded i feel. thinks only about how much he can save. But we are newly married, shouldnt he be spending on me and giving me gifts. What should i do? How should i deal with this ?