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Husband Calling Names- Mother In Law Laughs Loudly

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mirrorimage, Apr 14, 2019.

  1. mirrorimage

    mirrorimage Silver IL'ite

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    I had cold ,my nose was blocked with dry mucus and was cleaning my nose in private(No I dont do this often!Please dont judge--there was too much mucus dry blocking breathing)--
    my husband shouted "MOOKU NONDI"....."NOSE DIGGER".
    my son is stil small and he repeats everything ..so he also repeated the same.
    mother in law laughs loudly..
    I felt so bad.something so private has become a joke and laughter for them....
    and when I told him dont call me like that..i just dont like it....he was like its a very small thing,I just joked....and started shouting and distancing himself telling dont bring such small matters to me........

    I dont knw....when she laughed I felt so bad.....my self esteem shattered for sometime..and now because of the way my husband responded and not talking to me,I dont know if i even should feel bad...or feeling bad for such thing is wrong ???
     
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  2. iamsrihere

    iamsrihere Platinum IL'ite

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    Well, you should have said yes this is not a big thing to actually say or laugh about..Tell certain things are better left unsaid.
     
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    centsibleindian Silver IL'ite

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    I think it's really funny and you probably should try to take it light. We use this word quite often in our house if someone in the family cleans nose ;)
     
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    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    Well, will it be a small thing if he does the same.
    You too give him the silent treatment. Let him come and talk to you 1st
     
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    mayaangel Gold IL'ite

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    what nonsense ? There are some things that doesn't feel good when joked at.. That is called 'Manners' .. Such an idiot. (I m sorry.. I would have called him an idiot and the cut his poor Joke)
     
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