I had cold ,my nose was blocked with dry mucus and was cleaning my nose in private(No I dont do this often!Please dont judge--there was too much mucus dry blocking breathing)-- my husband shouted "MOOKU NONDI"....."NOSE DIGGER". my son is stil small and he repeats everything ..so he also repeated the same. mother in law laughs loudly.. I felt so bad.something so private has become a joke and laughter for them.... and when I told him dont call me like that..i just dont like it....he was like its a very small thing,I just joked....and started shouting and distancing himself telling dont bring such small matters to me........ I dont knw....when she laughed I felt so bad.....my self esteem shattered for sometime..and now because of the way my husband responded and not talking to me,I dont know if i even should feel bad...or feeling bad for such thing is wrong ???