Hi Ladies, Hope you are doing good there. I have been married for 11 years and living separately from my husband for like 7 years now. I have 2 daughters aged 10 and 8. My husband and his mother created lot of problems while living with them (incl. second marriage blackmail as well), my husband didn't take care of the family and there were lot of verbal and physical abuse as well. So i went to live with my mother. I was raised by single parent my mom. While living away from him also he troubled me by sending mails to my employer, sending blackmail mails to me. So i have filed divorce in the court. Last Dec, my mother passed away unexpectedly because of Dengue fever. Then he approached my relatives to reconcile with me. I had agreed to give another chance to him and lived with him for 2 months from Feb2022. He didn't do any steady job earlier and now also he is not working. As usual right from the marriage i am taking care of family incl. kids school expenses and on top of that i spent for his medical also as he is suffering for arthiritis and eye problem. there were lot of fights happened between us because i asked him to do the job, get settled because kids are older now, he should take some responsibility atleast now. He was not interacting with kids also when there is any fight between us. I wanted to add kids names to the ration card (i couldnt do it earlier as fathers name werent there in the ration card). When i asked him about that, he want me to reveal my financial info savings to him and all if i want them to add in ration card. I told him over the time when i get some trust, ofcos i will share all those. i cannot share it now as he didnt contribute anything for family. But now right after reconciling asking about my balance sheet doesnt seem right to me. After talking to his mother, realised that she triggered my husband to ask these. He got summon for the divorce and started troubling me with the points mentioned there. I am emotionally weak now as my mother is gone who was everything to me for my entire life. this loneliness feel is terrible. At this stage, instead of understanding my position he created more emotional trauma for me. I really got frustrated with this behavior and asked him to get out of the house. i have court hearing next month and planning to proceed with divorce but my friends asking me to hold for now. Is it right asking about finance at this stage? your views please.