Humour? Be cautious!

My dear Anna

Now a days there is so much stress in everyone's life that we need some entertainment to overcome our stress. For that laughter is the best mediicne. But humour should be such that it does not hurt anyone.

Laughter relaxes ourmind and the body and relieves from worries, tensions etc . It is a totally a boon for all of us. It provides a physical and emotional release. . Everyone must smile and laugh as it is very useful... The person having good sense of humor is liked by everyone.

Just sometime back I listened to the song Twinkle , twinkle little star sung by a lady in different ragas and had a hearty laugh. Some people enjoy humour at the cost of others which is not good.

I know a friend's husband who entertains everyone with his humour but at home he is very short tempered and shouting at his wife sometimes for silly things. He wants her to attend to him always. Being with him anyone will feel his family must be lucky to have humerous person like him. But he is not the same always though he jokes with his wife also. His wife has understood him very well so they enjoy life

 

Thank you for the like and sweet message about me my dear Anna which made my dayAs I have told you earlier getting a like from you is like getting an award from you

 

Nice narrative about humour !:thumbsup

 

Dear Mr Cheeniya,
I wonder if I have any sense of humour.
If sense of humour in a person makes himself laugh at his own follies then it is really great. At times humour makes hard time lighter if it doesn't hurt anybody's feelings. There are people who make sarcastic remarks as if they want to be humorous which obviously meant to hurt.

Akbar had Birbal in his court and Krishnadevaraya had Thenalirama who were court jesters. Wit and wisdom goes hand in hand.

You are a perfect example for it. Also there are many ILites in this category who make us smile and laugh and makes our day bright.

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We see humour in a person slipping over a banana peel and we start laughing.
tell me Cheeniya Sir ..
Have you ever seen anybody in real life slipping on one???.. the other night when when my son and I were walking Harley we saw a man slip and fall.. maybe not on a banana peel.. but fall none the less.. poor chap was so embarrassed and physically hurt . he couldn't get up and had to be helped to stand. nothing even remotely funny about the situation in real life.. I wonder why this is the most common comedy hit scene in reel life??
I love witty people and try attempts to subtle humour myself.. and yes I do agree that the most laughed at jokes are often those which put other in derogatory light .. very unfortunate. Infact most of the comedy shows and stand up comedians have this in their agendas.. have you seen comedy nights with kapil?? its one classic example of what I'm saying
YES Its me again!!!..
kerman

 

Dear Cheeniya sir,

I am sure you do NOT remember this but I had requested you long back to write on this topic. Somehow, though the topic is very dear to me, I knew only you would do justice to it. Needless to say I guffawed on reading about your visit to the so called humorous doc.
I totally agree with you. I am sure no one can stand sarcastic humour or jokes that are intended to hurt and the accompanying laugh to show that it was a joke makes me go Grrrr..
But classy language in humour, jokes with a straight face, self deprecating humour can make a person so endearing.
Looking at it from another angle ie from the joke-cracking person’s point of view I must say that some people are too sensitive also. They do look for hidden intentions, while the poor person may have cracked a joke in all innocence. In short it is very important to know your audience while speaking, humour or otherwise,isn't it?