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How Will Your In-law's React If You Uploaded A Vacation Video Like This ?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Minion, Apr 1, 2020.

  1. Minion

    Minion Gold IL'ite

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    Just a fun thread, How will your in-law's (MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL) react if you uploaded a vacation video in YouTube like this ? Will they be happy for you or will they feel jealous ?



     
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    ashima10 Platinum IL'ite

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    Mine would be happy. but I will never post.

    because i m lazy.
     
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    Reesha Silver IL'ite

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    O
    outside happy faces....inside jealous...burning faces....:tongueclosed:
     
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    rachaputi Platinum IL'ite

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    They gather all the points to prove disadvantages and humiliation what not, that reasons only could find by inlaws no one else on earth.

    Tag line: we are elders we know everything as God gave a copy of your future script. So u should take our permission to even breath
    And yes from one of the experience!!
     
  5. Minion

    Minion Gold IL'ite

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    This is the typical behavior of most Il's.
     
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    shravs3 Finest Post Winner

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    Forget in-laws, my DH itself wouldn’t be allowing it to do so :grin: He is of the opinion, why should anyone know about our private life in detail :p
     
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    Minion Gold IL'ite

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    It is not about your DH, if you tell any IL that you are going for a vacation its a different thing but if they see how you enjoyed your vacation its a different thing that's why i asked how would the IL's react.
     
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    In that case many pics and videos wouldn’t be shared to them :p Only few things will be shared ;)
     
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    Wow..talk about the irony!

    Just this morning I was thinking about my in-laws and their reactions to my vacations.I swear!

    They have travelled all over India..north to south and east to west..apart from that they joining every vacation we do in
    India and have been to many forge in vacations too..BUT they do not like me vacationing with my husband and to my face comment “You have gone enough! How many vacations you will
    Go!”..

    I used to send them snaps of vacation pics to share my happiness but my mil always counts on there number of vacations I went and shows a gloomy face.

    According to her,I should work hard at home and take care of child and home but do not like me going out even if it is grocery.

    If she is included..she is happy.Otherwise she hates is if I enjoy even a little bit.


    People in IL know how much I love India but..offlate I realized they will never change even at the age of 70 which they are and will comment rudely on my happy moments.

    This time no India..thanks to Coronavirus and Infact am not even looking forward to India trips anymore..

    I have convinced myself that I will even sacrifice meeting my mother who lives in India just to escape taunts from in-laws..

    My mil wants to come and stay with us forever..It gets me into depression from
    Time to time.I have started taking melatonin which induces sleep ,ashwaganda and stress reducing exercises.


    I will completely quit taking vacations or going out if they are with me.
     
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    I hope and think they will be happy for me.
     
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