Hi IL'ites, This post is just about sharing experiences May it be in real life or your work place it's very important to make your stand strong while you are arguing or explaining. Initial days I remember I could be defeated easily in discussions . I found the need to work around. I made sure I had a good knowledge of the subject before I jumped in to discussions .it helped me immensely not to give up early atleast . Later I found myself in a better place to pull down someone. Gathering strong points. Very important . You have to quickly think over and pull the strong points to support your discussion. Knowing the weakness of opposition helps you to find a easier route to target. More the experience discussing more the strength in your talk. Please do share you thoughts!!