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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by adisum, Mar 18, 2019.

  1. Afresh

    Afresh Gold IL'ite

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    lots of strength to you dear!
    Let this moment pass and you'll deal with everything! Keep the faith .
     
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  2. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan Finest Post Winner

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    :hello: Thanks. I agree with you sister.
    2. My concluding statement in previous post is request to Almighty to lend succour.
    Regards.
     
  3. sreekripa2002

    sreekripa2002 New IL'ite

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    Suicide is not the answer. I think your plan is to please your mother in law :tonguewink: - there are 1000 other ways.
    Your suicide will definitely upset your parents and your husband. Just think about your husband, his life (your life). He needs you. He loves you and you love him. That is what matters.
    Try one thing, casually talk to your husband and mention that somebody post this message in indusladies and ask his opinion or ask his help for a reply.
    Be strong, be bold and be happy.
     
  4. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan Finest Post Winner

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    It means adithi and OP @adisum are one and the same person.
    2. After reading @yellowmango posts, I keep hoping that a poitive response would flow from OP.
    GOD BLESS.
     
  5. soraj

    soraj Senior IL'ite

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    Hang on !!!
    Its a phase.. It will pass... Dont try to please ur MIL..
    Go to ur parents place like others suggested... It will change ur mind set... Think postively .. Focus or ur work .. have some hobby .. Ignore current issues.. Life is way more than dealing with MIL

    Hope u will have positive outlook !!!
     
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  6. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    That is her signature.
    Aditi sharma: queen
    :)
    Hope the queen posts soon.
     
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    ashwinid01 Gold IL'ite

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    Aditi.. I am not so active on IL these days.. But i remember your pre wedding bubbly posts.. You have recieved some very great and superb advices.. I have nothing more to add.. You and your life is more precious.. Your husband, your mother in law and her antics don't matter.. worst case your mother in law wont change.. So what? you can stay separate with ur DH.. Again assuming DH wont change.. So what? you can separate.. You get only one life aditi.. Don't waste it on Morons who dont deserve it.. Don't even waste your thoughts on them..
    Hope you have calmed yourself down.. waiting for your updates aditi..
     
  8. Desiindian

    Desiindian Gold IL'ite

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    dear op,
    Many understand here that you want to be heard. vent out here. This is the reality in india. if a lady commits suicide, husband and his side family would have some nonsense story for her decision. after few months/years husband gets married to another women, his family move out of their home to stay away from another blame from new dil. finally the only sufferer would be first wife's parents and loser the lady herself. So dont punish your parents. If you are working, and your husband is only troubling you sometimes, you can really kick out this problem. come out and vent out here. dont take hasty decisions. Just tell your husband that you are well and visit your parent place for sometime. Calm mind and place will bring good solution.
     
  9. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan Finest Post Winner

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    :hello: Thanks.
    2.The edited title for this thread is feather touch thanks to IL ADMIN. Tremendous relief and a big load off chest.
    3. I can’t agree more with your dictum that appears at the foot of your posts.

    “Good Times Become Good Memories and
    Bad Times Become Good Lessons”

    Regards.
    God bless
     
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  10. Topaz49

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    Adisum, we are listening and awaiting for you to post some positive thoughts and update. Everyone at IL cares for you.
     

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