Have been married for just over 1 year. I live with DH, MIL, FIL - none of them like me. DH is not much interested in me, he barely talks to me, just works, is on the computer and mobile. At times, when he feels he has been quiet for a long time, will just ask me - and what else? how is office? Thats it. Spending time going outside on weekends means go out for 1-2 hours and after that, its a constant bicker of 'lets go home' !! What is the rush to go home!!! He is not even interested in physical intimacy. We are intimate barely once in 6 weeks. And this is just the beginning of our marriage, what will happen in the future !! When i try and talk to him , he just has one thing to 'things will be alright, dont worry'. Also, he is just overprotected by his parents, who literally do everything for him, laying out clothes for him, getting his clothes ironed, buying things like razors n soaps n computer spare parts for him. He doesn't do anything for himself - i am fiercely independent and like to do everything myself. When i told hubby about why is is being pampered by parents so much, he just says - they are parents and thats what they do. i argued and said why so much dependency on them? he says - its their nature. I disagree - you are a man, stand up for yoruself !! MIL won't let me do any house work or chores - she doesn't like my cooking and is constantly interfering in anything i do. She doesn't want me to make either breakfast or lunch or dinner - when i say let me do, she will say no *I* will do it. if you want you make only for yourself. She doesnt like how i wash clothes, she doesnt like how i keep my cupboard, or my room. Just constantly criticises my family, my looks or anything that she can think so. FIL just runs around the pallu of MIL and keeps talking about how much they have struggled and how much MIL has done for the family !! I get absolutely bored and don't know what to do or how to behave at home. Because of this i leave the house for work early in the morning, and come back late at night , just to have dinner and sleep. I have taken up weekend hobby classes and meet my friends or go out alone on weekends. If i am home , i have no one to talk to or nothing to do. What should i do to change things around here? Why did i get married here. Needless to say this was an arranged marriage. This is just an arrangement.