Re: How to make his see sense!? He should be isn't it??? But he is not!! He pities them. Because they 'love' me so much that they are over-possessive and cannot handle me having loving thoughts for my own parents. The problem is nothing makes sense to him. If his mom saying that she wishes divorce for him doesn't open his eyes to the evil, I dont think anything can open his eyes. Its like "EYES WIDE SHUT". He knows everything and still behaves like a Ghajini, as coolpinky said. No staying separately is not an option. Because currently, we stay in a city, FIL stays at native and MIL stays with us. She wont leave us. Wont go to take care of her own husband. He eats out of tiffins but this lady stays with us to 'take care' of us. So the world can be a proof whenever required that "Woh to apne pati se alag rehkar bete or bahu ka dhyaan rakhti thi" (She used to stay separate from her own husband to take care of son and DIL) And in one of the shouting matches, she had mentioned that "if your wife doesn't want to stay with us, there is only one solution. She will have to separate from you. Because we will stay where u stay. She has no other option"