HI, I am a very short tempered person , and many problems arise due to this. Irritating comments and actions made by Inlaws, during their visists drives me super mad and i reply back to some extent. NOw it is very easy for them to drive me mad and I knowinlgly fall into their trap . How to i overcome this ? I badly want to master the art of ingnoring and not taking to heart such stupid silly issues. Please help me .