My brother family and my parents live in same house. My brother is a software engineer and is investing in some business now. I am worried about his investments. I told them not to invest much because it is difficult to recover if something goes wrong. And my brother is lazy and a bit innocent also. Anyway, he went ahead and invested. I talk to my mother, and once in a while, I get updates. I feel worried, I warn my mother, and sometimes she agrees, sometimes supports my brother. I try not to make many comments about it as it spoils the relationships. But very difficult for me to keep my mouth shut sometimes. As I am in USA, so me giving advice never created bigger problems, because I don't talk to my brother much. I used to take care of all the stuff before marriage, in the house or outside tasks also. Even after marriage I try to know the things are happening in India and worry, give advices. How to stop that? Now I am visiting India for 6 weeks, and almost 5 weeks I am staying with my parents and brother's family. I am worried about poking my nose into their business. Any tips to remind myself not to cross the line. How to keep my mouth shut? I really want to stay away, but at the moment, I say something and then feel like I am involving too much.