How To Fix 2022 - Not A Good Start

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  1. SuiDhaaga

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    Lot of cultures follow the Moon. There must be something scientific (but we are yet to prove)
     
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    That reminds me. When I went into labor, the nurse told me most women go into labor at or around the full moon too and the hospital beds get filled up. (They had to move me to a smaller county hospital nearby :))
     
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    You don’t need to buy a calendar. The Hindu panchangs are all based on moon. You can look it up online in Hindi or your native language. All you really need is the new moon and the full moon for every month. You can just look it up.

    And it’s not a rule that something will happen at every full moon of every month. But the opposite is true. When something does happen and you check, it turns out that the incident happened at or close to the full moon. Hope that makes sense.
     
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    Same here. A day before and after new year I had a major fight with hubby and sisters hubby. It was new year. Instead of spending time wirh family both our husbands sneaked out of the house on new years night. They had been leaving the house all night every night that week and we told them that was disrespectful. But still they sneaked out during new year leaving us to our selves. Come on it is New Years. Just because we have small kids ( sisters kids are 4 and 2) doesn’t mean we have to miss out on the fun. We have been fighting ever since. Not sure what the year will bring but I resent him. Like you too it started a burst of memories how I was mistreated during our marriage so I too have been explosions. I regret it. But we are human. If they hadn’t mistreated us why would we burst out. It is their fault for hurting our feelings. What is the need to “sneak out “ at night. ???
     
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    Oh wow!

    I think they should include Moon Phases in Medical School curriculum!
     
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    Ohhh, because so far I see incidents happen a day or two away from new moon and full moon.

    I'll be aware of these patterns.
     
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    May you finally get peace and happiness in the new year.
     
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    @SuiDhaaga is the person whom you lashed out at and the person who caused misery many years ago - the same ?
     
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    No no, two different people

    The person I lashed out actually helped me get back on my feet.

    That is why I feel so terrible.

    I still do.

    Everything seems same, but hurt take years to fade.

    Strife never makes anyone ever the same.
     
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    Thanks for the clarification. I still feel you did not do anything wrong. You are human. You said the person helps you to get back on feet, which means, you trust him/her as your own and poured your heart out. You don't have to feel terrible. You cannot have a "made-up " mindset even in front of friends. I'm sure you would not intend to hurt that person but maybe that was an after effect. Friends would understand. Just stay calm and it will be okay
     
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