hello, I am regular reader of indusladies but this is my first post. I am really irritated with this some issue. My husband and I stay with my inlaws. My husband has 2 sisters. The issue is inlaws and husband hide and donot communicate some piece of information to me especially things regarding my SIL. Like one of my SIL was expecting and even though they all knew well before I was told very casually after many months. When I asked my husband why he didnot share things; he said he was told to keep news within the family. God I realised I am not a part of the family. This happens quite a number of times on various issue and later when I come to know I am told that you are not so important to be informed first. However whenever any of their work is to be done and suddenly I am the most important person and they get it done from me. I am really angry with this happeneing time and again and wish to deal with this situation. Wish to convey if they want to get things done from me they can just plainly tell me rather than show off that u r important and integral part of the family and blah blah..