How To Deal With In-laws Visiting?

Dear Ilites,

So this is a little bit of the background information.

I married 15 months back and i'm living with my husband in a foreign country where both of us met before we got married.
As soon as we got married PILs wanted to visit us within months of the marriage citing the reason that their visas were approved way before but they couldn't come and stay with their son due to the pandemic.
I somehow managed to put it off by showing no interest in this discussion last year.
The reason is very simple. It's an arranged marriage, we were rushed into the marriage by MIL while still in the midst of the pandemic! We still need time for each other, we were in our honeymoon phase and still very much are. But now its going to be ruined with PILs visiting!!
We live in a downtown area in a one bedroom condo and just one full bathroom! I have no idea where they are going to sleep and I have absolutely no idea how i will share the bathroom with them !!

My husband works full time, he often comes home very late, around 10 pm each night or even later than that.
I have no job, i'm looking for a job since the past with one year with absolutely no luck. Hence i'm home all day.
I'm currently visiting my parents in their country and my husband just called me and told me that their tickets are booked and they will be visiting for 3 whole months!! I don't know how to deal with this situation. He initially told me they would be visiting for 2 months. Now he told me that the tickets were turning out to be expensive for 2 months.
Now even my holiday here has got ruined with this bad news, my anxiety will get the best of me.

Please help me cope with this situation. We have never lived together before. We went to India last year and we only spent 4-5 days together with both the parents.
The most important thing is that I have never ever shared a washroom with anyone and never lived in a one BHK ever in my life! I have always lived in very big houses with everyone having their own amenities and their privacy
For my husband and his family this is very normal since they come from mumbai and they are used to living in a one BHK and sharing one washroom with 25 people.
But for me, it is a shock!
I have never invited my own parents to my place for this very reason. Even if they do decide to visit it will be one month maximum owing to these same reasons.
How will I manage my time with them being around? I'm feeling very overwhelmed. I need to apply for a job or find something else. MIL keeps pestering me by sharing my resume with her aquintances who are here and connecting me with people here for a job. When i'm under one roof with her and her son being away at work I don't know how i'll manage this. Any initimacy between I and husband is out of question for 3 months.

Please help me dear friends, I have forever relied on this forum for advice even as a young girl.
I want to know how to manage my time, I don't want to waste the whole day on them when their son works extra hours at work and drops home late.
How should I maintain my distance with them and still have a cordial and peaceful stay with them?
MIL is a controlling self centered women who only thinks about herself and her happiness. She pays no heed to anyone's feelings or state of mind.

 

Thank you for your answer.

Your suggestions for what all I can do while they are there are nice and I will apply those.

As for taking a vacation home myself I can't do this since i'm already here with my parents for 2 months!

MIL is a vicious scheming lady. I had hit such a low last month due to months of facing job rejection that I was severely depressed and continuosly crying to my mother on the phone. Hence I and my husband decided that I should visit home( a different country than my PIL's and current place) and spend time with my parents for a while and also get some change. I booked my tickets 10 days before my flight and as my husband suggested informed MIL a week before my trip.
MIL was shocked to hear of the sudden trip and was not very pleased, she also sent a sarcastic messege to my mother. MIL even added that I should have instead gone to India and also spent some time with her, I reminded her that she herself would be soon landing at our place soon.

I think this is the reason she has now extended her trip from 2 months to 3 months. She wants to spend more time with her son and take more of my time than the time I am spending with my parents.

1) The bathroom is one big issue. We do not even have a powder room! Hence I will have to share a bathroom in a tiny house with PILs while husband is away enjoying his privacy in the office.

2) We do not even have a guest bedroom, hence they will be sleeping in the sitting room and spending their day there( hopefully not asking to come to my bedroom). Once I wake up in the morning I usually only go to my room at night. Now with the sitting room gone, I don't know where i'll be sitting the rest of the time. Probably locking myself away in my room......

 

I have been struggling with job search for a long time, i'm currently in a country that does not give jobs easily to its new immigrants.
The thought of the repurcussions have given me cold feet from a long time.
The finance management of this family is a totally different topic about which I'll gather the strength to post separetly some day.....

 

There are also a few other concerns.

My husband does not help much around the house, even when I was studying the whole of last year.
It has been a real stuggle with him. He does minimal tasks of hovering, mopping and a little bit of dusting and bathroom cleaning just one day of the week( either saturday or sunday). This too i have to remind him, it needs cajoling, threatening and some times even a strike! On weekends he sleeps till late and wakes up at 3 or even 4 pm.
I do the cooking, meal prepping, cleaning and pooja everyday.
He doesn't even put the food into the fridge after he eats his dinner late after coming home or even put his plate into the dishwasher and turn it on. I have to be awake to clean up after him.
I know his folks don't like him doing anything around the house.
How should I manage the chores when they are around? I know he will use their stay as an opportunity to get away from any kind of work that he can.

She calls from India everyday and controls whatever we do, now with her around I don't know how much she will dominate.