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  1. Jul 28, 2010 #41
    DrKadambari

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    Karthika you might want to check with the guy if he has to support his parents after marriage.

    Are you ok if your husband sends money to his parents after marriage ?!?!?!
     
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    mithy232

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    Rightly said Spidey. :rotfl :rotfl

    Poor girl....how to choose a partner merely knowing their work profile and family background?! :drowning
     
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  3. Jul 28, 2010 #43
    Naksh

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    I would say its best for you to get out of your town, go to a city. Stay in a hostel, manage things on your own and do a rigorous job search for yourself. There is no shortage of jobs. Buy things for parents with the salary that you get. And about 6 months after you get the job, ask your parents if they are okay for you to choose a guy by yourself? if they say okay, thats aweosme, if not then list your priorities and tell them you are now ready for marriage and that they can start looking out for alliances. By that time you would know outside world and would have become an independant woman who knows whats he wants in her life. Good Luck.

    You are not ready for marriage yet. Think and talk to your parents about this and the above advise. Take good care of your self.
     
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    mapleleaf

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    Completly agree !
     
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  5. Jul 29, 2010 #45
    SHS

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    Exactly.You should try to first have a good career, be independent and then go for marriage.You still need sometime.

    All the best
    stuti
     
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    arbit

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    Totally agreed. Very practical advise.
     
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    ArchanaP

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    Naksh,
    One of the best advices given in this thread.:thumbsup
     
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    Spiderman1

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    Hmm...I thought my advice to the Indian govt to ban arranged marriage would be the best advice *pouting my lips*


    LOL! Good one Naksh.:thumbsup
     
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  9. Jul 29, 2010 #49
    Ranchu

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    Spidey,

    My vote is for you !

    I dont think OP can handle this based on Naksh's advise.. its not practical enough for OP to implement this.
     
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  10. Jul 29, 2010 #50
    Spiderman1

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    Thanks Ranchu - I was just kidding by pouting LOL! I am one nut-kizhanda case! (I am a loose nut case, LOL! :))
     
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