how to choose

Hi
I feel that the person to whom i talked, is not looking for very good outer personality.He is tolerable to answer my all questions,but some what strict in following his own principle.He says that after marriage we can stay alone in some other state so that his earnings will be good over there..

What is actually marriage means.?
Is that satisfying sex needs or satisfying friendly relation?which gets prior importance ?.

This person is not giving importance to sex in life,it seems,because while talking with me he is not seeing my body of face reactions etc. and etc.,.keenly,unlike others who i have met.He was just answering to all my question,in his own style thats all.

(One thing is i am greater in his degree level,except that i did'nt get job as i had arrears in my engineering degree and also in property leve we are much greater than him.We din'dt get guy from a family of same status in property,because i did'nt go to job)

Because this person is not at all a shy person.He says what ever he feels,dont care much about the other person's (me)feeling or understanding unless i talk the issue completely.

He is little bit adamant in following his won principle.Will he change for my sake at future?
I feel safe, and hopeful but little bit fear,and anxious that will he hear my ideas at future without strictness in mind and words.


thanks
karthika

 

Hi asuitable girl,Ranch ,ArchanaP and others,

Please see my last post.I have given the details of the boy who i have met.
Can u say how to proceed further..

thanks
karthika

 

hi

The person who i met last (met him directly)alone in a room.
We are allowed to speak for nearly 5 min.
Actually he don't minds about how i look,how i talk and all..unlike the others who looked my face reactions etc..and etc..
This is the first boy who didnt give importance to how i talk,how i react etc..I have not seen such a guy before...(I think he do not expect more beauty from the girl..Is it so? )what would be his expections..other than the girl should look and talk nice..??