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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mkarthika, Jul 19, 2010.

  1. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    I will delete this post.
     
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    Good job spidey.......
     
  3. ArchanaP

    ArchanaP Silver IL'ite

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    Karthika,

    Thinking about financial security for future is nice, especially when you do not have plans to work. But concentrating just on finances to choose a groom is not good. Marriage is more to that. You need to concentrate on other qualities that you like/dislike in your future husband.
     
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    ArchanaP Silver IL'ite

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    Spiderman,

    Can you translate the lines in your signature. Just curious to know what it means...

    Thanks
     
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    hi,

    i feel engineering one is better than diploma, why you bother about property, see whether which of the family among those two is good and get settle in life.

    now-a-days rather than property one is looking for what he studied. so beter go for eng one.
    all the best...!!!
     
  6. Ranchu

    Ranchu Local Champion Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Karthika,

    You seem so concerned about the guy's promotion and studies. you have not mentioned about your studies . why is it , you haven't taken up a job ?

    When you talk to the guys, do you get the feeling that he will take care of you well in future ? No matter what job he is in, what studies , what background.
    You should marry someone when you get the Secured feeling !
     
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    Ranchu Local Champion Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Archana,
    Its a silly signature about 2 movie stars.

    Time enbathu “SURYA” padam madhiri, odikitey irukum..Aana vaazhkai enbadhu “Vijay ” padam mathiri, atha nama thaan otanum…

    Time is like Actor Surya's movie, it will keep on running on its own...
    but Life is like Actor vijay's movie, we need to push it , to make it run.


    lol ! spidey , english translation sounds every more funny
     
  8. mapleleaf

    mapleleaf Silver IL'ite

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    Karthika, there are lots of aspects that needs to be thoroughly thought through before deciding on who becomes your life-partner.
    Try to see if you can find more about each of these guys (like their interests, what they do during their free time, their future goals, how close they are to their family,their personal habits, their temperment etc etc)
    Now after you have a fair deal of info on both the grooms try to see with whom you will fit well (it will depend on your interests, your goals, your temperment etc)
    One other thing is the second person may be content and happy where he is and may not be having a interest in pursuing the Bachelor's degree like you suggested unless he told you otherwise.It would be best to discuss this with him, he would be the best person to tell you if his company would offer promotion incase he completes his degree and if he is interested in pursuing it at all. Good luck.
     
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    ArchanaP Silver IL'ite

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    Thanks for the Translation Ranchu. I know both the actors, have seen both their movies (Surya's, a couple, Vijay's, just one). Those lines are true and funny.:rotfl
     
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    Thank you Ranchu for the translation. Good one there.

    Arch - the source for my lines are CanWait
    Whats your mother tongue Arch?
     
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