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How to become Mother-in -law's pet

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Resmi0501, Feb 24, 2015.

  1. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    If mommy is so scared...let her keep her sonny boy in her womb and cross her legs shut.

    Solution to the problem....
    If you can't part with your son...don't get him married.
    If you are scared of losing your territorial hold over your kingdom....let the dil have her one home far away from where she can't cast an evil eye on your home.
    If you want a pet...get one.
     
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  2. bappanaduSose

    bappanaduSose Bronze IL'ite

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    I agree with @VanithaSudhir...
    MILs want their son to get settled after marriage...[wonder who defines the word "settled" here..??]
    They go to thousands of astrologers to get horoscopes matched...look for the best for the son...[for what???]...then get a grand wedding done...and when the girl actually comes home..the behaviour changes.Mothers suddenly becomes over caring by taking care of sons clothes,make tasty food for him and making sure he is comfortable.[I say this as i have seen my mom doing to brother].If she had plans to do all this even after the wife coming in,then i dont think there was any reason for marriage and bringing the gal home.[I sometimes wonder what was the intention behind they getting son married...]
    If the DIL volunteers to cook,she is called "DIL has taken over kitchen".IF DIL takes care of house shopping..she is told "DIL has put me to corner..i dont have any say".If u sit or stand,it is considered wrong.That shows that they dont like the new person at home. They could have as well finished wedding and gal and boy can go back to their respective homes.Whn the time comes(read :pILs getting very old and not strong enuf)..they can call the DIL back home......
     
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  3. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    And some where in between,let the couple...meet up ,mate up and pop out a few grand children .
     
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    Sweety789 Silver IL'ite

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    YM...ur solution is always good...kneesmiley
     
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  5. abla

    abla Gold IL'ite

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    laugh1smileylaugh1smileylaugh1smiley
     
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  6. abla

    abla Gold IL'ite

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  7. dsmenon

    dsmenon Gold IL'ite

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    So a girl's mother doesn't go through any of the difficulties while bringing HER up?? Why is it only boy's mother went thru such great difficulty highlighted; while a girl's parents sacrifice are ignored big time? :idontgetit:
     
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    indubalram Gold IL'ite

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    Whoever want to be ruling the family the rest of her life would want to be MIL's pet! simple logic!
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Where is Troll Police?
     
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  10. abla

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    Sorry did not get it.Do you mean as MIL rules the DIL her whole life she needs to make sure she is on her good books ? Or Dil should rule her family hence want to be MIL's pet ?
     

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