Hi, My inlaws are here and its going pretty ok. I dont understand whether its the negative effect due to their presence or my own mind but im often getting triggered and very often not talking to dh since their visit. Like MIL all the time wants to make dh's favorite dishes ignoring kids(first priority as per me) and me. She enquires only if dh eats etc. She wants to talk to her daughters (India call) but never mentions about me anytime.She wants hers/FIL's favorite food all the time. SILs respond to hubby's emails instantly and ignore mine. If I dont respond,Im left alone. Im kind-of tired maintaining one-sided relationships. I try to ignore and move on but every single day, they have something new for me. Im losing patience.I lost control yday and threw things all over. Im kind to them and try to keep them happy yet can never be in their good books. Friends, please suggest how to keep my balance and not take it out on my kids.I dont want them to succeed in their plan of making/picturising me as a bad person.