Hubby was always a practical guy.. Newly married days...I thought he was not romantic but now looking back..miss all the care,love and affection he had on me. Not that he does not love or care anymore..but everything between us has become "take it for granted" It happens. However..it has become me time and his time.. He is too busy in his work,eat at his own times,sleep late and with kid around distractions for us. Here and there we talk,laugh it out a bit but overall after these iphones and other technology came in.. we have so many other distractions to keep us occupied. My friends say that men go out with their friends,ladies with their friends and so as a couple ,spending time together has become taken for granted. My mil says it is just a phase and after one grows old, couples usually reconnect. Be it love or arranged married..everything is the same after some years. What is your take on this? how much of quality time do you share with your spouse?