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how much age difference between husband and wife is ideal as per you?

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  1. Anvitha

    Anvitha Moderator Staff Member Gold IL'ite

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    Hi,

    Can you all please pour in your views on the age difference factor between husband and wife?

    How much do you think is ideal and why?
    I saw people having 3 yrs to 12 yrs age difference.

    This is just for discussion sake.

    thanks
    Anvitha
     
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    positivegal Gold IL'ite

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    i feel 3-5 yrs is ok.....
     
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    Minimum 2 and maximum 5 years
     
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    VIJAYALAKSHMI06 Platinum IL'ite

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    I feel 5 or 6 years is ideal where in there lies a good adjustable and a maturity level between the couple.
     
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    While I opine it is 2-5 years, an ideal age gap cannot guarantee an ideal marriage.
     
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  7. Anvitha

    Anvitha Moderator Staff Member Gold IL'ite

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    thank you all .vijayalakshmi even i feel 5 6 yrs will have the maturity levels advantage.
    earlier at my parents time they used to have 7 to 13 yrs gap also. later it came down to below 10 and now a days it seems below 5 is the trend?
    is it right? anyone having 5 to 6 yr gap between them and how do you see it.
     
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    fencesitter Platinum IL'ite

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    ok, who should be the elder one?!
     
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    Hello Anvitha,

    Personally I feel that age difference is not a concern. To me it is the compatibility of the two individuals involved in the marriage is all that matters.Because two of best are getting married and the girl is elder to the guy by an year.

    Not sure if this helped the discussion in anyway . just my :my2cents
     
  10. Anvitha

    Anvitha Moderator Staff Member Gold IL'ite

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    LOL some how I still couldnt get into that generation idea

     
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