How Long Do You Spend In Cooking Everyday

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  1. gamma50g

    gamma50g Finest Post Winner

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    I spend an hour from 630 am to make and pack my kids lunch and husband's lunch.

    Then breakfast and lunch takes anywhere upto 3 hours with an hours break in between. It's not like I cook a lot of complex dishes. However, chopping veggies, prepping and actual cooking takes time, depending on the number of people that I cook for . By 1 pm we have lunch and I run a full load of dishwasher.

    By 3 pm, I unload this dishwasher.

    By 5-5:30 pm the headache of what to cook for dinner starts. It takes about an hour to an hour to cook dinner. Half hour to clean utensils in the sink that accumulated for the evening and load and turn on another full load in dishwasher.

    I feel like I'm always in the kitchen cooking or cleaning up. I don't find time to even step out of my home for an hours walk because by the time I get that time (after 12 noon), I'm already tired.

    How do you ladies manage your time in kitchen and how long does it take for you to cook in a day?
     
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    One hour maximum per day. I do as much prep work as I can on weekends and the previous day: what can be chopped in advance gets done. My kid prefers to eat the school lunch, so I just have to assemble a snack box for her if she feels hungry at aftercare. Breakfast for her is simple: toast/eggs/waffles/cereal. The adults don’t eat breakfast. My DH will usually fix his own lunch if he’s working from home. He buys if he’s going to the office. Dinner is something quick and I make enough so I can have the leftovers for next day lunch. It helps that no one is fussy about food.
     
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    @gamma50g Just curious, if you are not in town or sick who does cooking in your household ?
    Do you like cooking for this much time ? It depends on your preference
    Personally I don't like cooking so I buy things which will make my life easier.
    I have accepted that I'm getting older and have to
    be make choices which will help my body and mind. Do what you think is right.
    If you feel it is too much then find ways to make it easier either by hiring a cook or getting a helper whatever you feel comfortable doing.
    Don't listen to anyone otherwise. Doer gets to make the decision.
     
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    gamma50g Finest Post Winner

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    I don't like to cook for hours on end. I buy things that make my work simpler too. I have food processor, chopper, you name it that took. However, it still takes me time because not all vegetables can be chopped with a food processor. When my in-laws are here which is 9 months in a year, they have breakfast early morning by 730-8 and want lunch ready by 11:30. I'm wondering what else can I do to shorten my cooking time short of buying food from outside so that I can get at least an hour for myself to workout in the morning. Hence I am looking for ideas.
     
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    Chances are you've been cooking long enough now and are already at the most efficient you can be for this amount of cooking. Any ideas or shortcuts will not last long as you will revert back to what is habit. Looks like you cannot save even some thing from lunch for dinner, or from dinner for next day's lunch. Getting from outside or hiring a helper 2x a week is also not an option.

    To shorten the cooking time you have to shorten what you cook. Start refrigerating food. Cook in the weekend, get husband to help, so at least till Wednesday there is less cooking to do.
     
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    9 months is overkill
    Can’t your mil make some tiffin on her own and serve fil too ?
    I feel like you need to break out of this routine. Can you hire helpers who can help you daily for an hour ?
    I’m assuming your in-laws won’t eat previous day food.
     
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    I cannot eat what my mil cooks because it's spicy, oily and full of coconut. Also if she cooks, she finishes my grocery supplies also way earlier. So I took over my kitchen and cooking. No matter how much I cook, it mostly gets done the same day. If I cook extra sambhar for next day, it gets used for dinner also and is done. If I manage to save something, it won't be enough for all of us. My in laws won't eat refrigerated food. It stays refrigerated for days and gets trashed. Like @Rihana mentioned, it's the quantity of food that takes time to prepare even though I am trying to be as efficient as I can.
     
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    Hello OP,

    Here is the tips I follow, if it helps you, I am full time working mom with two kids, 8 and 4 in USA.

    morning I wake up at 4:30 am and 5-6 I will do work out and I start cooking from 6 am , I will make one curry( mostly steamed and tadka not gravies), carrot/beets/beans what ever , I put rice on pressure cooker at 6:10 am, chop veggies I strictly make only for our lunch box sufficient for 4 people. I make curry by 6:45 am. In mean while I make breakfast that is idli/dosa/left over from dinner upmas, kids wont eat upma's they will go for bread or cereal. I pack all 4 lunch boxes by 7:30 am. Husband take care of packing kids 2 snack boxes and water, he makes kids ready, we all eat breakfast and leave home by 8:00 am.

    Dinner : I use food processor to make dough, I cook dal directly on pressure cooker, I keep rice in cooker. we(Adults eat roti and kids eat rice with dal.

    I make rasam on days I am working from home thu/friday and kids eat dal and rasam.

    some times we all crave for paneer, chana sabzi's then I make them kids eat same meal with rice/roti.

    If I end up making those curries I use them for lunch and morning make only roti.

    If I make upma/sabudana/poha, we eat that for breakfast left over from dinner.

    other wise our lunch box has 2 items one curry that made morning and left over dal from previous night.

    If I make pastha then that will be used for kids next day lunch.

    on weekends I make vegetable chutneys lauki/ridgegourd/tomato that we use as side dish for dosa/idli.

    I spend morning 1 hour in kitchen and even about same time, dishes are taken care by husband.

    we rarely eat out/get take outs. I enjoy this process and it is not too stressful, if it is some times, I ask some home cook's we have around to make same meal

    I dont freeze any food, not make any prep works, I dont use frozen food other than frozen vegetables like peas.

    hope this helps!!!
     
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    An hour and a half in the morning and 45 min to one hour in the evening sorts everything out for me.
    I like to cook variety and cook alone.
    While my hands are at work, I use that time to focus and plan my day. The whiteboard in my kitchen also sees a lot of action during that time.
    The trick is to make it into a productive/meditative exercise rather than a chore.
     
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