Re: Do you tell your spouse you are attracted to somebody? Hey guys thanks but yes this marriage is a constant struggle for me even for basic respect. Sorry for hijacking this thread but I guess I need to vent out before I spew some more venom on other threads :rotfl... My DH is like one of those ladies who're capable of forgetting their house or street in night/ darkness and am one of them whom even if you drop at remote village of velinkini will find way back home. Also if he takes a route for 3 days in a row he'll automatically turn the steering 4th day even if he knew he had to take a different route today. Same goes with his behaviour.. if he observes his parents abusing me 3 times in a row, he picks up their accent & changes for bad. The other day one of my wardrobe shelf gave way & fell on my hand and my DD was constantly getting into the way that she could have hurt herself.. so I raised my voice & told her to get aside. To this my DH commented "Barking started - Day n night".. I set it at a safe place & confronted him if this was the right way to talk & if thats what he's going to speak in front of kids. I've heard his parents speak the same for me but I never pulled it up into current discussion... he apologised but then it again leaves me battered cos this was not the disrespect I ever saw in any marriage. Hence I've to constantly fight for even basic respect in this marriage thanks to his parents & their abusive ways of dealing with each other's differences :bowdown.