When I finished my SSLC exam, my mother planned a trip to guruvayur. She was having a relative at Kochi and planned to go there first and make a trip to guruvayur with them. I didnt like the idea much. This relative was a lady and whenever she visits us my mother used to ask me and my sis to give namaskar to her. Everytime I fall on her feet she used to bless that I have to come as the DIL in her family. I never met this son before and started hating him like anything. So I strongly refused for the guruvayur trip with my mother. There was no booking needed for the KOchi trip so me and my mom came to TVM the previous day to my sis and BILs house. My mother explained everything to my sis and asked her to take care of me for a few days. That night my BIL casually enquired me why I was not interested. I told him that I am afraid of that lady and her son. My BIL assured me that he will never allow my mom to take this proposal if I am not interested and explained me the importance of the durshan at guruvayur that too before my result. I fell flat for that and agreed to go. When we came to this house in kochi, I noticed it was a huge family with many girls and boys and the particular son is the eldest one. The lady and her DH were so nice to us that we both ( Me! ) felt like being at our own house. The eldest two girls who were 5 and 6 years elder than me also were very friendly to me and the younger ones didnt stay away from me a minute. I noticed it was a very closely knitted family. The next day morning we all went in a van to guruvayur , laughing, screaming and singing together. All this time I noticed a pair of huge eyes were following me whenever I was looking at that side. Some chemical reaction happended inside me that before finishing of that trip I fell flat for that family. My mother was very careful not to take the topic of my marriage all this four days as per my BILs instruction. When we came back to tvm, my BIL came to me to enquire about the trip and after reading my mind he looked at my sis and they both were smiled as if they expected this. What next, dum dum dum within two months and that is how I was clean bowled by a man who had a very paavam face and two big eyes.