hi all. when do you realize that your sil doesn't / don't have good feeling about you or jealous about you even though apparently they are nice to you ? any incident that makes you feel like she is playing a trick or something? my sil acts as if she is caring and as she is about 5 years older than me, she has a tendency to give an impression that she knows everything that I don;t know or can handle any situation better than me.Whatever we do something , she tries to make fun of it or criticize indirectly in other context , not in front my DH though.she can go on anything from our style of living or groceries( how can people buy this stuff or that stuff as things are so bad in USA, in India those are so fresh, how can we get used to all these processed stuff), our eating out habits( how can we try out different cuisines as all the food here make her feel like throwing up) ,my dress sense (the dress are all bulls here, color and materials are all crap, the good textile material are only available in India, she wonders how can we consider dillards or macys as good place to shop),if we go for a shopping or my DH buy me some stuff and coincidentally she comes to know about it( her next comment is I am so compromising, don't force my husband to buy thing every now and then like all other worthless wives out there) or sometimes she will introduce a topic related to jewelries n sareers etc and will make some comment (i hate that design,I don't know what people think when they buy that kind of ordinary stuff(trust me guys, she is worse than "ordinary" in any way,but has opinion about everything :rotfl) [invariably the design she mentions resembles any of my jewels or saree etc], or makeup that I have used.she doesn't say those words immediately, and of curse in a passive way. She is the one who happily took a saree from my suitcase in my absence after my wedding and didn't bother to ask me ever.Later on she has taken a few other stuff from my suitcase when I visited India first time after my marriage.Surprisingly there is absolutely no one else in their house and I find something is missing both the time. But what irritates me the most is that she is very nosey and inquisitive about our daily life and money matters. what's your experience?