I try to adjust and live ,everyday is fight for peace and your integrity.There was a snack(some rusk like buiscuit) which my father in law brought and the label read some stuff with i felt is very unhealthy,so I told my MIL plz dont give it to my son(who is a toddler). And they give it when I am not at home for him to eat. One day when I went home early,I was shocked to see that snack in my childs hands.. my heart broke because I want him to eat healthy at this age atleast while at home,god knows what will happen when they growup and what all they will end up eating copying friends. inspite of me telling dont give that to the baby,they just dont listen. Our fridge is loaded with fruits which they can give...or anything healthy..even milk if he is hungry..inspite of all this.... I dont know what..are they lazy to cook anything ???is it out of lazyness to wash anyfruits that they do that???? come on...i have compromised so much bearing all ur torture all I ask is give some healthy snack to my son,they fail me in that.I would not have got to know if I hadnt been early to home that day...I dint know.. anything we tell..we seem/appear rude....even if it is for good....There I stand Not to appear rude yet heart broken and god knows what all they do when I am not around to my son...I just dont want him to get addicted to unhealthy snacks at this age and end up not eating real food..... God knows..God save the world of women..!!!