I consider myself to be an empath who tries to give my 100% to others. I consider others problems as mine and work it out in my mind and give my best output. At the same time, I get disappointed if others don't meet my expectations. I don't expect them to be same like me but I expect some amount of transparency and returns. It's also hard for me to distrust a person. An old friend of mine wouldn't hesitate to chat or call if she needs to be heard but she didn't have the courtesy to inform me beforehand that she was coming to India. I found out when I pinged her casually. I have not seen her reciprocating much when she didn't need me. Another incident happened recently when a friend didn't disclose something on a transaction that involved us too. If I was in her position, I would have updated the involved people as soon as I could. I couldn't handle the indifference on her part. So my question is how do you handle disappointments? We often hear that we allow others to hurt us. can you remain unaffected by others behaviour,especially the ones you care?