Hi Ladies, I would like to get your opinion on how you handle arguments with your spouse. Do you fight fairly? Let us brain storm some strategies for fighting fairly. I think it is extremely important to learn to fight fairly. I realized that I lack good communication skills with my husband. I do all the wrong things during an argument and end up getting the wrong result. Some of the things that I do are: 1) Get emotional. 2) Rack up the past 3) Do a character assassination. 4) Use words like "ALWAYS", "NEVER". 5) Become verbally abusive. 6) Blow my top 90% of the times. After an argument both me and my husband apologize but it leaves a sour taste. I am especially worried that I would set a wrong example to my son on how to argue effectively. I want to learn and practice some strategies to argue fairly and effectively. Ladies please share your thoughts. Thanks, Kavya.