I am 41 and I have no problem accepting it. I have a few gray hair and to me it is just part of growing older. My mom never dyed her hair and now at 75 she has beautiful silvery strands and she looks beautiful! I feel more in control of my life now than ever. I don’t really miss 20s. In my 40s I am looking more towards a purpose and contributing to the society. In my 20s I wasn’t really thinking about that. For me, the positives of getting older are endless. I’m a lot more confident in who I am. I’m less worried about what people think of me. There’s a stage in your life when you understand this intellectually but then you reach a stage where you feel this in your heart and I am there. Getting old is a privilege, denied to many! I am grateful for a happy, so far healthy 4th decade! I hope you find your calling and accept the different seasons of life!