I have been married for 5 years, initially when i came to U.S, i felt so much of home sick and used to cry a lot but my husband rarely used to sit beside me and feel my pain. Even if i had headache, he would just leave me alone. With time, i understood he is not much emotional. Recently, i am going through very bad ohase of life and when i feel heavy hearted i cry alone. Few days back, i was sitting alone, he came and i couldn't control my tears at present situation and started crying. Though he talked to me and sat beside me, I never felt he feels sad when i cry. After couples of cry, i asked him what he feels if he see me sad/crying as i cant feel any sadness in his eyes or heart. He said- It depends why i cry. That really hurted me. I said i am not child and mature enough. If i feel so much of pain , then only i cry. He know i am reserved and doesnt express my emotions usually. He said may be he is not much emotional. Sometimes he feel sad, sometimes not. I appreciate his honesty but do you think he loves me? Sorry for long post. Couldnt help myself asking from experienced ladies over here.