Posting this issue from my friend's life. Please suggest how can she patch up her relationship- A year go my friend started doing tik tok videos. And according to her, she had asked a couple of groups to promote her video and in one for these groups. A younger guy in one group started "to have feelings for her". from the first time she asked him to promote the video. Let's call this tik tok admin A, my friend B, and her husband C. Although B has said that she is married, this guy A kept DMing her that he has feelings and asked for her number. My friend is in the US and this guy is in India. Not to forget that guy A is significantly younger to B more or less 8 to 11 years. After several months of A being persistent. B gave her number and they texted on WhatsApp. According to my friend B it was just hi how re you and forwards. And B didn't seem to respond often. This all blew up when her husband C accidentally saw that B messaged someone and compared the number on her phone contacts. The name on her phone showed a female name. And no other previous texts than a text from A asking something totally random and her texts asking what that was! Now her husband C has lost all the trust. He thinks she must have cheated on him in the past and he can not trust her in the future. Her husband is ready to walk out on her. My friend tells me that she didn't cheat, she was even talking to this guy as he was the admin as he will help to promote her videos. The whole conversation is not being shown and texts on Whatsapp are deleted and aren't backed up to show her husband she didn't sleep or even called him. My friend knows that 1.she is wrong in talking to A even though he said he has feelings. 2. She shouldn't have given her number. 3. And to have stored his number as a woman. Her husband is livid that if she hasn't cheated on him why would she do all the above-mentioned questions? Why store the number as a woman. My friend swore that she didn't even talk to guy A. This apparently got confirmed when her husband texted A asking basic questions like "what do you think happened during the last year". The guy A said nothing happened- as B avoided, not respond and they were like friends. My suggestion to her was to completely get off social media. Stop the videos. Block that guy A and maybe get to marriage counseling. As they both can be on the same page going forward. I trust my friend, not to have cheated. But there are serious questions that her husband is questioning like "why talk to this guy" if she hasn't cheated in the past. What made her talk to this guy. She feels justified in her answer that she spoke to him so she will be prompted but her husband is not believing that. How can my friend build back her trust and save her marriage? How can she make her husband believe she didn't cheat on him?