I have a friend with high-functioning Aspergers. Due to her inability to detect social cues, she never made friends - instead lot of people were her enemies. Now she is in lockdown and will eventually come out. She is learning computer technologies and hopes to meet fellow Aspies (or anyone who can understand her struggles) My Aspie friend feels tremendous guilt for what she has done in the past due to her ignorance. She spoiled friendships in her first work environment. There was misunderstanding due to cultural differences. It was a gentle work environment where people genuinely were concerned. She moved to another job that is cutthroat. Her only respite is COVID-work-from-home. She spoiled a friendship between one of her lonely relatives and someone from India. She thought the person from India wanted her to marry his son because he wanted her hard-earned money. She wrote a nasty email to him (relative's friend was in his 60s, in frail health) and destroyed a beautiful friendship. Irony is, she married someone who was using her, giving her hard-earned money to his girlfriend. Lucky for her it ended real quick. Once in a while these memories pop up in her head and she feels sad. But my friend has "an internal burning fireball of anger" within herself. She always finds something and someone to get angry at. For past few mornings, she caught herself being angry 20+ times. She is trying to control this "burning fireball of anger" through prayer, meditation, awareness, but it is so persistent. She is trying to harness this "burning fireball of anger" by working hard at home, work, study, but it is so persistent. Now she is afraid she spoiled her relationship with an Aunty who was trying to help her with matrimonial, but backfired. And when she asked for Aunty for health advice (her recent bloodwork had scary values), her Aunty gave her a brief reply. Any advice for my Asperger friend. How can my Asperger friend be nice to the few people who are actually nice to her and not spoil any friendships. My Aspie friend is scared that if she dates someone who is nice she will ruin it due to 1. misunderstanding something 2. blowing the misunderstanding out of proportion 3. lashing out at the person who is actually genuine She feels that if God would have blessed her with nice Husband and Children she would have spoiled that too! I feel really sad for such people.