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How Can I Open Myself Up to a Good Man if I cannot even confide in my own Father?

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by zipzipzoomzoom, Mar 18, 2012.

  1. SSC

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    ZZZZ,
    I dont mean to hurt you, and this is my comment after reading 'n' number of your posts on the same topic!
    You come across as desperate! Desperate to meet mr.right, desperate to fall in love, and in a hurry to get married, to an extent that you blush in the presence of a mere decent guy around u...

    Please put an end to these thoughts! Meet new people, they will eventually become best buddies in the longer run! When love is MEANT to happen, it will! You dont have to go in search of it. And who knows one of your friends may even become your life partner?! Take a chill pill, sit back, relax, and you are doing fine - personal relationship wise, career wise! Enjoy your single life as of now. Like rose said, life is simple, dont complicate it by over-analyzing it. Go with the flow!
     
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    Woow, you are a cool mom!
     
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    i get this feeling that, you are obsessed with perfection, subconsciously.
     
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    Privacy settings are great but be aware of this too:
    Facebook gives us the false sense of security while none of your contents will be deleted in the real sense.
    Facebook does not erase user-deleted content | ZDNet
     
  5. zipzipzoomzoom

    zipzipzoomzoom Gold IL'ite

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    That's so true. When I do something absent minded, my dad always says that if I wasn't so absent-minded, I'd be married with a kid (or two) already


    I guess God is compensating for my other shortcomings ;-)


    Oh no!!!!!!!!

    I'd love that ;-)

    Early 30s.....



    Feel free to give advice, we're here for each other, and we're friends.


    You're right. Let me concentrate on being friends. Yesterday I was having blushing issues again, and with other young men. (Hope they didn't notice....)

    That would make life so sweet...


    Thank you for the kind words


    hahahahahhahahahah....well, I'm far far far from it!!!
     
  6. RamyaSridhar1978

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    Hey are you just fooling around here or genuinely interested for a feedback and working on it I presume...
    What happened to your therapy!!
    You desperately need to see a psychiatrist !!..
     
  7. zipzipzoomzoom

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    Of course I am working on it


    My last psychiatrist ran away ... I think I drove her bonkers :rotfl


    Seriously, this is a work in progress ... will let you know when the good news comes .....
     
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    Sorry for misunderstanding I thought you are just doing TP( time pass). It's so funny reading this post of yours I felt you seem desperate and I thought you have some self esteem issues which I suppose you do have but happen to come across some prev post of yours and I understand your reason for behaving the same. I think you have had a a difficult childhood / adulthood .
    I guess you now seem to take things in lighter vein.!.... When life can get tough! ...
    Way to go!! Do pm me if ur getting hitched :)
     
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    For some reason, things I say and write sound comical at times


    I certainly shall!
     

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