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    abc00 Gold IL'ite

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    I was so mesmerized when I first heard about the law of attraction - that whatever we aspire the universe will make arrangements to get it to us. Believers of this law say I lacked something in wishing when things didnt work.

    I would like to know if any of you are able to attract better things in life - not due to LOA - but due to changes in your mindset and willpower ? Share it please.
     
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    SuiDhaaga Platinum IL'ite

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    LOA worked first a while for me. But as soon as the Universe throws a curveball I lose my enthusiasm.

    Happened twice

    But LOA shouldn’t be blind faith. Work towards it, ie do study, hobbies, meditation, etc.

    And accept the Universe will throw a curveball.
     
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    @SuiDhaaga thanks for your response but you didn't answer my question a little bit in detail how you were able to attract better. I'm not looking at LOA as an answer
     
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    Law of Attraction
    There are tons of videos on Youtube
     
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    SuiDhaaga Platinum IL'ite

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    I told myself to think happy thoughts and be nice to people.

    I imagined a life that I wanted.

    For a while people were nice and receptive to me.
    Then someone, something convinced me I am no good and I believed it.

    so I lost my courage from thinking positive thoughts and being nice.

    Now I am trying to get it back.

    case in point. I wanted to marry MR X. He was perfect in every way. Instead I ended up marrying Mr, XYZ who seemed much better.

    This was a complete lie.

    now I am away from MR. XZY, I have hard time wanting to marry Mr. X.

    plus there is lot of things I didn’t know about Mr, X that I know now, and it might be a deal breaker.

    my illusion has been shattered, how to pick up the pieces.

    now what I do is
    Pray
    Meditate
    Be thankful
    Create beautiful art (well it’s beautiful to me, I share in UL, judge fir yourself)
    Write poetry in IL

    but most important I tell myself feelings are my friends. Bad, nasty feelings come and when you calm down say

    “my feelings are my friends”

    or

    “Lord forgive me for my trespasses as I forgive those who trespass upon me”


    I’m struggling myself because I’m no longer happy and radiant like I used to be.

    perhaps you can give some inputs
     
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    Needtobestrong Platinum IL'ite

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    I have heard of law of attraction, one of the alternate medicine and healing organization in my city used to conduct regular workshops on this and it was popular too,
    But I didn’t get a chance call to attend.
    But, my personal opinion is.
    Success depends on many factors, like efforts we put in, hard work, smartness and common sense in utilising the facilities and opportunities available to us. And LUCK too. Luck for the right things to happen at the right time.
    I think the principle of LOA is majorly positive attitude and mental strength to face any situation.
    1. For example, an overweight lady, who refuses to believe anyone who says she is unattractive. She firmly believes she is beautiful . Very beautiful. And does everything she can, eats good and nutritious food and plenty of water , uses all opportunity to get excercise, like walking to her bus stop, taking stairs , doing her household chores herself etc without worrying about outcome and firmly believing she is beautiful and slim.
    Refuses to accept negative comments about her flabby tummy , hips etc.
    And some months later, her clothes are all loose..she checks her weight and finds a difference. She looks beautiful and 10 years younger.
    2. Another example, a student who is freshly graduated and needs a job.
    Companies aren’t hiring.
    But she firmly believes she is intelligent and capable.
    She tries to take any opportunity given to her.
    Does research work and helps out her professors unofficially.
    Does courses.
    Volunteers at NGOs for field of her expertise.
    Does low paying Internships.
    Works for free and assists at some acquaintances office as unpaid intern.
    But never loses hope.
    Never gives in to taunts from others who think she is sitting jobless.
    Doesn’t fear the difficult interview questions and instead prepares according to her ability. Whenever she can.
    Couple of months later, she clears the interviews in a major MNC with a very high salary package.

    LOA successful.
     
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    It happened to me Twice:)

    Two things which I desperately wanted.

    1) perseverance and hard work without worrying about results but focusing on the process.
    2) undeniable faith (In my case,I blindly surrendered to God and was not greedy and I truly believed I deserved what I sought out)


    LOA works superbly with the above two.
     
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    @anika987 and others who respond...I'm not looking for how LOA will work or worked - as I do not believe in that and not even looking for how to make it work. I want to know if you could make things work with your willpower.
    Gosh, I shouldn't have mentioned LOA.....Lol !!
     
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    Well..Willpower definitely makes things work but one needs to be practical and have some focus and proper planning of how to execute things.

    It is always best to focus on the process than results.That’s the best part.The journey is the best enjoyment and every step makes us feel wonderful.
     
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