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higher studies after marriage

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by ruchi2000khare, Feb 27, 2010.

  1. ruchi2000khare

    ruchi2000khare New IL'ite

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    hi everyone,
    i m married 4r 4 yrs& we dont have any kid no problems bcoz that was our dicision now we r trying u know work in progress hahahha.
    jokes apart my problem s i m studying MBA but icant concentrate. something or other comes may it frm any side..which s affecting my studies.my husband s gud & never says anything but he dont take any interest in my studies means he dont even ask hw r my studies going?? do i hv any problem in studying??or so..which irritates me as i mvery emotional gal.
    plz suggest as myexams r in april & i hv 8 subjects to do.i havent stared yet plz u guys help me out...:help:help
     
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  2. RadiantCat

    RadiantCat Gold IL'ite

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    Is this some kind of a MBA-mania here? There's another similar case in the forum. You can tweak that thread and check out how similar or different is your case.
     
  3. ShilpaMa

    ShilpaMa IL Hall of Fame

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    Ruchi,
    Are your seeking attention from your DH in order to study?
    These things happen as long as a guy is your BF, the moment they turn DH, they turn the baby in the marriage & you have to give them the so called attention.

    Was this MBA course out of boredom or complusion on you? How were you in earlier education... also what's your exact aim in life.. an MBA degree for namesake or job prospects... what are the issues that are not letting you to concentrate?
    Pls tell yourself that you're wasting a professional seat which could have gone to a more deserving candidate who would have taken it more seriously to pursue it with greater enthusiams to find a job & make money or be of benefit to society.
     
  4. Tara09

    Tara09 New IL'ite

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    You need to see what is disturbing you and stop that disturbance inorder for you to concentrate on your studies.



    Is he troubling you while you are studying .............NO!!!!
    Then what is your problem?? If you have any clarifications needed regarding your study and you think he can help you then request him to help you. Why should he come and ask you if you need any help in your studies??
    Are you a 6yr old who needs mommy to supervise her homework??
    You are emotional and sensitive so you should better understand this that taking up MBA course was your decision and you should work hard and get it done successfully. Do not try to start something as serious as this just to get your hubby's attention......looks like that to me....to get your dh's attention only.
    If that is the case then there are lot other ways to get his attention.....you are grown married woman......I need not explain here...:)


    Your exams are approaching and what more better suggestion than telling you to pick up books and STUDY....WORK HARD!!!
    Come out with flying colors and then see how happy/proud you would have made your dh........that is what is needed.....right?
    Don't waste time thinking he is not picking up your book and holding it in front of you so you may study. Grow up!!
     
  5. ras09

    ras09 New IL'ite

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    hi...
    i m MBA too. And there were 3-4 married girls in my batch.
    They all were good students. They concentrate on studies only,
    They talk abt their husbands as if they are their BF.
    dnt take much tension. concentrate on studies.
    All the best for exams..
     

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