Thanks Yellowmango, hopefully i can tell it like that to my mom and it will all go over well. She is already at my house and told my sil that she will be back in 2-3wks. My mom will miss her friends at gym/senior center that she has started making with my encouragement to get out of the house more. Meeting these seniors my mom has realized that rich or poor, at old age people have the same issues with son/dil etc. My brother did buy a 4bdrm house 2yrs back. But in retrospect that house unfortunetly has bdrm layout all wrong for privacy i guess. They should have bought an upstairs master with a bdrm down types that we have. Oh well nothing can be done on that. My brother did not say that mom will be in myhouse long term but i find 2 months at a stretch hard to fathom. Every 2wks every month is workable. My mom will be really stuck at home at my place with no gym/senior center or buses. Also if my sil had found a job here (trying 3yrs) it would have helped as she would have gotten out everyday. That also has not materialized so a complex is forming for my sil think. Hope they can find some happiness.