Hi All, Mine is love marriage. Its intercaste marriage. Both of our parents accepted and then we got married 8 months before. I am working in a private concern. My husband has a elder brother who is working in Delhi. His daughter had some serious health problem and they came to chennai for treatment. Since its long term treatment (2 years), my brother-in-law's wife & 3 years daughter is staying with us. For first two months, the child was hospitalised and now discharged from hospital. The child is recovering well. My brother-in-law went to Delhi and he may get his transfer to chennai after a year or more. Doctors strictly told that the child should be at home only not even it should go to school. You can admit her to school only at the age of 6. So, the child & her mother cannot go anywhere out. Now, the issue is I feel hesitated to go out for cinema, restaurant etc. with my husband. My husband also feels that his babi is not with her husband and her daughter is also sick; in this situation how we can go out & enjoy. I can understand but If its for short duration, I may not worry but its for 2 years approx. We are newly married and would like to enjoy this moment. Sometimes I feel irritated as we enjoyed a lot in the first 6 months. Also, I feel guilty sometime that why am I considering my happiness when the child is sick. Do I need to change myself not to expect going out with my husband. How can I handle this situation? Help me friends.